Navigating Cancer Treatment in Bordeaux, France: A Journey of Hope and Healing

When we decided to move to France, a major reason was the opportunity to explore new and innovative healthcare options. Jon’s cancer diagnosis had thrust us into a whirlwind of consultations and treatment plans in the U.S., but the options felt limited and the timelines daunting. We knew that certain therapies and drugs available in Europe were still waiting for FDA approval back home. The chance to access cutting-edge treatments without the prolonged waiting periods, combined with the promise of a different pace and quality of life, made the move to France an easy choice.

Shortly after arriving, we were connected with an oncologist in Bordeaux who made an immediate and profound impact on Jon’s care. Originally from Romania and having spent time in San Diego, this doctor’s fluent English and cross-cultural experience provided a much-needed bridge as we navigated the intricacies of the French medical system. Jon's first meeting was a revelation. He spent over an hour explaining Jon’s condition in detail and outlining treatment plans. By the end of the visit, Jon felt an overwhelming sense of relief and hope, like he had finally found the right path forward.

What struck us most was the doctor's level of personal engagement. He followed up with numerous emails in the days following Jon's initial consultation, clarifying treatment details and even offering advice on logistical aspects like getting enrolled in the French healthcare system. This was a game-changer. Instead of facing endless insurance approvals and administrative hurdles, we were guided step-by-step through a process by someone who had to do the same thing only a few years prior. The doctor’s efforts to ensure Jon could access a particular chemotherapy drug were invaluable.

The cost of healthcare in France has been another unexpected blessing. In the States, we had grown accustomed to astronomical bills for even the simplest procedures. Here, a typical doctor’s visit costs around €50, and prescription medications are a fraction of what they would be back home. For instance, a drug that might cost hundreds of dollars in the U.S. is often under €10 here. This financial relief has been profound, allowing us to focus on Jon’s health rather than being constantly hounded by medical bills.

The efficiency of the healthcare system here has been equally impressive. In the U.S., we were used to waiting weeks or even months for appointments, lab work, and scans. But in France, everything happens at a pace that seems almost unreal. Jon needed a PET scan to get a clearer picture of his cancer’s progression. We were bracing ourselves for a long wait, but he was scheduled in just three days. Even more astonishing was the speed at which we received the results—they were in our inbox the same day. Similarly, routine blood tests were performed in the morning, and detailed results were emailed to us by early afternoon. It’s a level of efficiency that feels both reassuring and surreal, especially coming from a healthcare system where delays and frustrations are the norm.

However, navigating the French healthcare system hasn’t been without its challenges. The hospitals here often feel deserted compared to the bustling medical centers we’re used to in the States. Walking through the quiet, almost eerily calm corridors of the clinic in Bordeaux, we kept expecting the usual flurry of activity. The language barrier has also been a mixed bag. Our French is serviceable but far from fluent, and communicating with hospital support staff has sometimes been an adventure. Some staff members are more comfortable with English than others, and we’ve often found ourselves relying on a mix of basic French, English, and a lot of gesturing to get by. While not always smooth, these interactions have generally been marked by kindness and patience, making the process easier to navigate.

One of the more significant procedures Jon needed was the insertion of a port under his right clavicle to later administer chemotherapy. This was performed at a hospital in Bruges, a small town just outside of Bordeaux. The experience was, in many ways, emblematic of our medical journey here—filled with small challenges and unexpected kindnesses. The nurse assigned to Jon spoke only basic English but went out of her way to ensure we understood everything that was happening. Her efforts to communicate, coupled with her genuine care, were deeply touching. It’s these small moments of connection that have made navigating this difficult time a little easier.

With the port successfully in place, Jon is now scheduled to begin chemotherapy on October 3rd. As we approach this next phase, there’s a mix of anticipation and anxiety. But we feel prepared, supported, and hopeful. The level of care and attention we’ve received has been extraordinary, and the responsiveness and dedication of Jon’s oncologist have been a constant source of strength.

We still have a long road ahead, but we’re moving forward with a sense of optimism. We came to France seeking hope and healing, and what we’ve found is a system that has not only met Jon’s medical needs but also offered us compassion and support every step of the way. For that, we are profoundly grateful.